Romans 8:28
Friday, September 11, 2009
Second Guessing
I have heard through the grapevine that you are wanting to see pics of the house. I don't blame you. We are currently working on "operation decoration" and I promise pics will come soon. We absolutely LOVE our house and could not be happier. It is nice to actually have our own home. So comforting.
I have been settling into my job at Clarksville Academy, a private school here in Clarksville. I accepted a full time position earlier this summer. I am soooo out of my element in 5th grade (I'll just be honest). It is getting easier and I am beginning to get a good grip on the curriculum, but I miss the younger ones. It is also quite an adjustment to return to work after having stayed home for 2 years. I am slowly adjusting...key word being slowly. I tend to be a perfectionist and don't know if I will ever learn that I can't do everything perfectly, or everything period. I am having a hard time doing anything but working and that makes me so sad. I just don't know. I love the actual teaching part, but all the other headaches that go along with it....I just don't know. I think this is the first week I haven't had a major breakdown.
I say none of this for sympathy or to be dramatic. It is just how things have been going. I have maybe cooked two meals since school began (I have the most amazing husband EVER). My house is a little dusty. I just sent birthday presents to my two sister-in-laws last Friday, September 4th. Their birthdays were the 15th and 22nd of August. I haven't returned my friend Julie's email from the week we were on vacation (last week of July). I did not run one single mile this week. I come home from school, eat dinner, work some more and pass out in exhaustion. It is now Friday night and I am laying here in bed watching TV while my husband is attending a "hail and farewell" dinner that I am too exhausted to attend myself. My list goes on and on.
I really tried to focus on what I really wanted to do while I spent 2 years away from teaching. I felt like maybe it was a chance to try something new, but was not exactly sure what that was. I was never really sure if I wanted to go back to the classroom or not, and as other things in my life have not exactly worked out like planned (not that life should be planned), I decided maybe I should go back to teaching full time. It has been and still is a rough beginning. I know things will get easier and with God's help I will get through it all. As for my future with teaching...I am being totally honest when I say I am not sure what will happen beyond this year.
Wow! I probably sound super negative huh? I didn't mean to turn this post into a sad sob story. I guess it is just how I am feeling tonight. I really am fine and hopeful most days. I am hoping for a restful weekend. I was so tired this afternoon I thought I would fall asleep driving home from across town. That is sad! I promise to try and be better at posting and we'll update you on the house soon. I hope you all have a restful weekend too!
Monday, March 23, 2009
Having a Ball!
Monday, March 9, 2009
Progress
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Busi-ness
A look at the loft area and kitchen from the living room.
That is all for now, but we will post more after our visit this weekend. I can't wait to see what they have accomplished. I think we should have a driveway and sidewalks! Exciting!
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Just for Fun...An Interview with Jill
I have so many literary characters I love in general being an elementary teacher. There are a few from my childhood that I particularly remember. One of the characters I remember most from a very young age was Eric Carle's, The Very Hungry Caterpillar. I used to LOVE to look at his illustrations. I loved the pages where it shows everything he ate. I of course loved the last page as well where he turns into a beautiful butterfly. It is just one of those books I remember from a very young age. I also loved and read all of the Laura Ingalls Wilder books. The differences between her life and ours always facinated me. I also loved the fact that she was a real person.
2. What is your favorite food?
All food! It is true, I rarely meet a food I don't like. I love eating (I usually joke that this is the reason I run). I love cooking. Food is a passion of mine. I love making meals for people and watching them enjoy it. I also enjoy eating out! Joe and I often joke that eating out is our hobby because it is just about the main thing we spend our recreational money on. I have so many favorites. If I had to pick an ethnic category I would have to say Italian. In general I love good home food such as potato soup and macaroni and cheese. I can also go for a yummy curry dish from an Indian restaurant. I could really go on and on! (Is that sad?)
3. Where do you want to retire?
Hmmm. This is a tricky one. I would want to be by family of course. I am really not sure I have thought about this at all before. Now I am stressing out because I need to plan for my retirement! I might have to get back to you on this one later.
4. Who do you admire?
I have many people who have touched my life in so many ways. I have awesome and inspiring parents, grandparents and friends. I have the most amazing husband. I don't know how he can be so patient with me and love me so much. I am truly blessed with an amazing marriage. (I don't know if I really answered that question!)
5. If you were invisible, where would you go?
I think being invisible wouldn't be all that fun. I am a very social person and need human contact. I do think there could be benefits though. It would be kind of fun to spy on people and listen to their conversations. Most of all if I were invisible I would go wherever I wanted!
Sunday, February 22, 2009
"Hail and Farewell"
Are you tired of the updates yet? I know it doesn't look much different than the one I posted for last week, but you can see it much better now without all the scaffolds and piles of brick. We went by to look on Saturday and it was very cold and rainy. The wind was blowing pretty hard too. The brick is pretty much finished on the front of the house and the parts that aren't bricked will be sided. The brick was already chosen before we bought the house and we weren't sure if we would love it or not. We have decided that it looks pretty good. On the inside things pretty much looked the same except they started on the duct work , outlets and wiring. They have also installed some plumbing as well as the tubs and showers. It was fun to see things already in place and Joe and I walked through the house planning and discussing things for quite a while. We finally succumbed to the cold and couldn't stand it anymore. We are so ready to get settled into our new place and make it home-y.
Not much else has gone on this weekend. Friday night I accompanied Joe to a "Hail and Farewell" at one of the local restaurants. For those of you who are wondering... this is where new officers are welcomed into their unit and those who are leaving are recognized for their service. As you can guess Joe was being "hailed". I didn't really want to go because we really don't know anyone. Joe didn't really want to go either, but was obligated to attend this formality. Originally I was going to be gone, but since I was in town I got to go. He told me it would be over pretty fast and they were to serve dinner. It ended up taking a lot longer than we thought. It was yet another fun introduction to the real Army (it is still hard to believe sometimes!). It was kind of awkward, but I did meet one wife that was super nice and Joe already knew her husband. We of course also visited with Ed- the PA Joe is replacing (he was being "farewelled"). He is a super funny guy who is not afraid to tell you what he thinks. That makes conversation interesting let me tell you! The actual "hailing and farewe
lling" was quite comical. Their commander made up some funny stuff about the guys when he was introducing them. When Joe and I went up (yep, i had to go up in front of 70 people I didn't know also) he said he would be nice because Joe was a married guy. They gave me a unit pin and a beautiful rose. The pin is super Hooah...complete with the unit insignia and heart shaped. Here is what the insignia looks like...Joe's unit is called "Widowmakers"- nice huh? Just imagine it all heart shaped and pinned on my collar. I think the winged skull is a nice touch. I need to find something great to put my pin on don't you think? It was one of those experiences very unique to the Army and I am sure we will remember it always. Well that is all pretty much the excitement that has been our weekend. Also making it a great weekend was of course another Mizzou win, but I am most thankful for some good quality time with my awesome husband. I hope you all had a great weekend too!
Friday, February 20, 2009
It has been a long week!
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Excitement
It has been a good week so far. I have not been called to sub so far this week, which actually makes me happy. I feel like I am actually caught up on things and that is a great feeling.
Not much else has gone on this week. Our biggest excitement came on Saturday when we drove by the house. It was great to see that the roof was on and we could see the stairs were in place...it was exciting. We climbed on in where the front door will be and even went up stairs. If I hadn't seen the other house I wouldn't have known what everything was, but somehow we could identify each room/area. We even found some changes that the builder was making- like a built in for the TV in the bonus room, and another linen closet upstairs.
Here is Joe in our bonus room.
Needless to say, this was an exciting venture for us to actually be able to walk through the house, go up the stairs and know that it is ours. Hopefully we'll have even more progress to show next week! I'll try to write some other posts not containing house pics. I feel like that is all I write about lately, and it is, but that is the most interesting thing we have going on at the moment! Bear with us, we are first time home buyers and very excited!
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
The Verdict is in!
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Sold!!!
Kind of...I guess it isn't much of a house yet, but hopefully by April we will be living at our new house on Southwood Drive. It was never our intention to "build" a house and really we aren't. We happened upon an open house in the neighborhood and the realtor explained to us that the one we looked at was sold, but that the builder was already using the same floorplan on a different street. We LOVED the house so we decided we would wait for it! The fun part is that since we have bought it so early we get to pick out the flooring and cabinets. We plan on keeping you updated on the process and we will post a pic each week of the progress the builders have made. Joe and I are excited as we finalize our financing tomorrow, and prepare to be homeowners. I am still a little nervous about the whole thing, but I think I'll have plenty of time
Here is your first look at our new house! The foundation and brick surrounding it were the only things finished when we put down the contract on Thursday. By Saturday they began framing! Like I said will post a picture a week so you can track the progress with us. We already got to make our first choice- wood burning fireplace or propane gas. Important stuff!
Everything since August 27, 2007

As I’m sure you all know, I’ve also started my new career as an Army PA. I’m assigned to headquarters troop, first squadron, seventy-fifth armor regiment, second brigade combat team, with the 101st Airborne Division. Abbreviated that is: HHT, 1/75AR RGT, 2BCT, 101st ABD. Here’s a little background info for those who don’t know…troops and companies make up squadrons and battalions (cavalry and infantry respectively), squadrons and battalions make up brigades, and brigades make up divisions. I am the primary care provider for a squadron of roughly 450 personnel. I see clinic on a daily basis and run the aid station (clinic) when we are in the field. I also have a role in logistics as far as deciding what medications and medical supplies the unit needs. And I have a role in training our medics, which I believe we have around 25. A few nice things about the job are that I’m not directly responsible for anyone else and I don’t fall under anyone else besides the Squadron Commander (top dog) and the Brigade Surgeon. So in general I can just do my thing and not worry about too much “Armyness.” I’m committed for the next three years, which will include a deployment in the next 12-18 months (Afghanistan most likely). We’ll see what happens after that.

Graduation was nice. We had a small ceremony because only five of us were graduating. I didn’t really feel like I was finished until I passed my board exam a couple of weeks ago though. I scored a 589. I have no idea what that means beyond it’s passing, but it sounds like a great score doesn’t it? Now the only thing I’m waiting on is to be credentialed by the hospital. Once that happens I’ll be on my own. Exciting, but a little scary. I feel like I could use a few more years of training! I don’t know if I’d ever really feel prepared though. I’ll leave it here for now so Jill can tell you more about the house we bought and post a picture. I’ll try and post more regularly from now on. Actually I’ll have to do one about the Dining In I attended on Friday which served as my introduction to the Cavalry. Good times!
Friday, January 23, 2009
Crazy, Crazy, Crazy Stuff!
Thursday, January 8, 2009
New Beginnings

Monday, January 5, 2009
We've Been Busy
Our biggest news is that we are now officially going to be Tennesseans for the next 3 years. As many of you know we were awaiting the Missouri Guards decision to keep or release Joe to Active duty. We found out around Thanksgiving that they had decided to release him. We really felt like this was the best choice for us right now. We are thankful to God as we know he has once again answered our prayers. Joe and I are excited to begin looking for a house during January and for Joe to begin his career as a PA. He received a promotion to Captain and is now sporting some fancy new "railroad tracks" as they call them. Along with his promotion comes a raise and for that we are very excited (and thankful!). Other big news of course is that Joe is done with PA School!!!!!! We could not be more excited for this new chapter of our life to begin. As far as all the details of where he is assigned and so forth...I am saving that for him to tell you. You can expect a blog from him soon! He'll fill you in on all the graduation and "army"stuff.
In November I traveled to Wichita, KS to help Mae and Ian out with their precious little girl Isabelle. I spent a lot of quality time holding my new niece and helping Mae prepare for the rest of our family to arrive for the Thanksgiving holiday. We had the best Thanksgiving. All of Joe's family was able to make it. We always have so much fun together. I am so blessed with great in-laws!
We also had a busy few weeks leading up to Christmas. Joe's birthday was on the 18th and his graduation was on the 19th. We ate at Maggiano's in Nashville for his birthday. It is so delicious! His mom was also able to come down for all the fun. Here is a picture of Joe with his enormous banana bread pudding. I don't think he even finished half of it! He's a handsome 29 if I don't say so myself!
It was the first Christmas Joe and I have had a tree in 3 years! So we bought the biggest one yet! I loved our tree this year. We kept it simple with colored glass ornaments and white lights. I spent most of the day today taking it down and I have to say it was sad. We traveled home to Farmington for the holiday. We must have been so good this year because Santa was good to us! On Christmas Eve we enjoyed dinner and opened some gifts with my parents and grandma. On Christmas day we went to my Aunt Brenda's in St. Louis for dinner and all the festivities. I hadn't seen most of my family since last Christmas so it was great to catch up and see everyone. It was exciting to catch up with my cousins Carey and Amy. Carey lives in CA now and Amy lives in New York. They are gorgeous!We celebrated our 6th anniversary on the 28th. Joe had a great anniversary planned for us at the Opryland Hotel & Resort. When we arrived they had no record of our reservation and did not really try to make anything up to us. Joe even had a reservation number and everything. They could not find it. We felt so silly and like they thought we were making it up. So we left embarrassed and with a charge on our credit card that they had no record of charging. It pretty much ruined our anniversary. I felt really bad for Joe. All in all we feel blessed to have 6 wonderful years together and I can't wait to see what the next year has in store for us. I think that is about it for now. Maybe this post will get some people off my back (you know who you are!). We wish everyone all the best in the upcoming year and I have resolved to be better at updating our blog. Seriously!
Joe & Jill Costello